Their Trauma Response
Card A [no card pulled]: Other’s Perspective
Card #1: Past Problem- That is causing/feeding into their perspective.
Card #2: Advice- What you should do about this issue in your relationship.
Card #3: Reward- What you will gain from following advice in card #2.
Card #4 [no card pulled]: Intuition- A reminder to use your intuition when making your decision. Is this person worth your effort? Is this a healthy relationship to stay in? If in doubt, please talk to a safe person or seek professional help. See Resources.
Card A [no card pulled]: Other’s Perspective
Card #1: Past Problem- That is causing/feeding into their perspective.
Card #2: Advice- What you should do about this issue in your relationship.
Card #3: Reward- What you will gain from following advice in card #2.
Card #4 [no card pulled]: Intuition- A reminder to use your intuition when making your decision. Is this person worth your effort? Is this a healthy relationship to stay in? If in doubt, please talk to a safe person or seek professional help. See Resources.
Card A [no card pulled]: Other’s Perspective
Card #1: Past Problem- That is causing/feeding into their perspective.
Card #2: Advice- What you should do about this issue in your relationship.
Card #3: Reward- What you will gain from following advice in card #2.
Card #4 [no card pulled]: Intuition- A reminder to use your intuition when making your decision. Is this person worth your effort? Is this a healthy relationship to stay in? If in doubt, please talk to a safe person or seek professional help. See Resources.
For this spread, Card A is a placeholder because it is assumed that you already know the person’s view on things, and you are just trying to figure out, “Why??” or “WTF? Why are they acting that way??” If the behavior of someone in your life is negatively impacting you, and you need some insight so that you can sort out a way to approach the problem, this is the spread for you. Please name the person and their perspective/behavior that you’d like me to address in the Additional Information form at check-out.
I co-created this spread with my Well-Ancestors.